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Resources for emotional eating, binge eating disorder, non-diet approaches and all that jazz

Resources for emotional eating, binge eating, non-diet approaches and all that jazz

I wanted to share with you all a big old list of things, from books to apps to courses to podcasts, that I’ve found helpful as I inch along this journey (spew) of finding my way forward from chronic dieting, learning to take better care of my long-suffering bod, while also working on this binge eating shenanigans.

(What a terrible sentence.)

I’ve been faffing around with this list for months, and I’m not sure why I didn’t hit publish sooner because a blog post is not set in stone! I can add more things as I remember, and I’d love if you’d share anything you’ve personally found helpful for similar journeys, in the comments. The more the merrier!

Let me slather this with the usual disclaimers. This is stuff that has either helped me, or that has helped good folks that I know. It’s not a ringing endorsement of every word. Sometimes it’s just one chapter or episode that produced a nugget of gold. Also, there are no affiliate links.

Podcasts

The Done Bingeing Podcast

The Done Bingeing Podcast – This is a very practical and compassionate podcast by Martha Ayim. She was a secret binge eater for over 30 years, to the point of having her jaw wired at one point. I was in a bleak and desperate place when I found Martha’s work last year and she gave me a lot of hope. While there are a lot of great podcasts out there that deal with eating issues and non-diet approaches, I’m often in a different demographic to the hosts so I can’t quite connect. Martha was the first person I’d ever come across with a similar severity and duration of binge history, only she’d managed to find a way forward and now generously shares a lot of great information.

If you go right back to Episode 1 and listen chronologically, she guides you through a process, step by step. There’s also a transcript in the show notes of each episode if you prefer to read your way through.

Listen to ‘Dear Sugars’: Trust Your Body — With Hilary Kinavey & Dana Sturtevant

Trust Your Body – this is a single episode of the Dear Sugars advice podcast, co-hosted by Cheryl “Wild” Strayed. A listener asks, “I struggle with how to be body positive after years of being told it’s wrong to be my size and weight. Is there such a thing as unconditional body acceptance?”. Hilary Kinavey and Dana Sturtevant of Be Nourished came on the show to help answer.

They talk about the “diets to donuts” phase that many folks have when they realise they’re done with dieting, but what’s great is that they talk about the place in between those extremes that we’re aiming for – they call that discernment.

If you’ve ever felt shame or frustration about the size or shape of your body, while simultaneously tired as f*ck from constantly trying to “fix” it to be more palatable to society, and/or if you’re bored of the space the struggle takes up in your head, while simultaneously not knowing how the hell to do things differently… you may enjoy this episode. I found this to be a poignant and helpful conversation.

Insatiable podcast

Insatiable – hosted by Ali Shapiro, it’s a podcast “for progressive, holistic health-care providers and real people fed up with fixing and fighting food”. So far I’ve only listened to this excellent episode about how to stop nighttime eating so far, including a bit about why advice like “take a bubble bath if you feel shit at the end of the day” can be so fecking unhelpful. I’m going to try some more episodes.

FEARLESS REBELLE RADIO
Fearless Rebelle Radio – “a podcast dedicated to body image, body positivity, self-worth, anti-dieting and feminism”, hosted by Summer Innanen. I’ve only just started listening to this one but my friend Denise recommended it highly and she’s never steered me wrong!

Non-Fiction books

Body Kindness: Transform Your Health from the Inside Out-and Never Say Diet Again: Transform Your Health from the Inside Out-and Never Say Diet Again

For a practical primer, Body Kindness: Transform Your Health from the Inside Out–and Never Say Diet Again by Rebecca Scritchfield is full of useful tools. She uses the concept of “spiralling up” – small, sustainable changes building upon each other. She also has a Spiral Up Club if you want support, loads of free resources, and of course her free podcast too (which I help to produce – client disclosure! 🙂 ).

Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat for Binge Eating: Mindful Eating Program for Healing Your Relationship with Food & Your Body

Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat for Binge Eating: Mindful Eating Program for Healing Your Relationship with Food & Your Body by Michelle May and Kari Anderson. I’ve just started reading this one and finding it to be very practical.

Intuitive Eating, 3rd edition

Intuitive Eating, 3rd edition by Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch. I first read it in 2010 and it’s taken me eight years to wrap my head around the ideas within and start putting them into practice, such is the grip that diet culture has on one’s brain.

A top tip I heard via Jes Baker is to skip the chapters on Gentle Nutrition and Exercise if you’re just starting out, and just focus on absorbing and experimenting with the earlier principles. This stuff takes time. If you dive into the nutrition stuff too soon it can really get in the way of tuning into your body signals, which can lead to one turning intuitive eating into yet another diet (which is exactly what I did ;).

The Intuitive Eating Workbook: Ten Principles for Nourishing a Healthy Relationship with Food

I found this newer companion book even better – The Intuitive Eating Workbook: Ten Principles for Nourishing a Healthy Relationship with Food. There is something so thrilling about writing inside a book! I’ve been working my way through this book in a slow and steady fashion. The step by step exercises helped me see the patterns in my behaviour. There was one exercise in which I had to list all the diets I’d been on, alongside my weight over the years. After seeing the diet/binge cycle in black and white, I could no longer argue with reality!

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Dr. Kristin Neff – I bought this book after the self compassion class at Green Mountain, curious to learn more. I thought that self compassion = self indulgence; letting oneself off the hook. But Dr Neff dives into why this is not the case, and the tangible and research-proven benefits of being kinder to ourselves. Basically it starts with talking to yourself like you would a good friend. Instead of constant trash talking, which I have to admit has got me bloody nowhere.

Dr Neff’s TED Talk The Space Between Self-Esteem and Self Compassion is also a good watch.

Reclaiming Yourself from Binge Eating: A Step-By-Step Guide to Healing

Reclaiming Yourself from Binge Eating: A Step-By-Step Guide to Healing by Leora Fulvio is another good practical guide. She also has an online course if you want more support.

Books on the To Be Read pile

I really should finish one freaking book before I start another but… och well!

Body Respect: What Conventional Health Books Get Wrong, Leave Out, and Just Plain Fail to Understand about Weight

Memoir

Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body by Roxane Gay

Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body by Roxane Gay – as mentioned in the 2017 review, this book ripped me up and rocked my world.

Also, Roxane’s recent Medium essay What Fullness Is – On getting weight reduction surgery is mindbogglingly powerful. Her whole Unruly Bodies curated series on Medium is full of great stories, too.

Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls: A Handbook for Unapologetic Living and Landwhale by Jes Baker. I’ve only just started these but they came highly recommended!

Apps

Recovery Record

Recovery Record – I’ve been working with a dietitian and I wanted a digital means of sharing my food diary with her. I asked, Can I just use MyFitnessPal but not look at the numbers!? That was a hard no from her. She introduced me to Recovery Record, a free app. It’s a bit daggy in design I gotta say, but it’s a powerful recovery tool. As well as keeping a log of your meals you can track thoughts, feelings, any binge/restrict urges, any moments of disordered eating, all in a gentle and totally non-judgy way.

My favourite features are 1) being able to just snap a photo of your meal instead of typing stuff our and 2) if you are working with a clinician who also uses the app, they can check in with you, see your diary, post you messages. I’m finding it very helpful for where I’m at right now.

nomo

Nomo – Last year where getting through just ONE day without bingeing felt impossible, I found this app helpful. After years of My Fitness Pal and other “friends”, I felt compelled to count something.

It’s designed with addictions in mind, like alcohol, drugs or smoking, but has options to add your own thing. Seeing the streak of Not Bingeing days was hugely motivating, for a good 150 days.

I would say that you should know thyself with this app and decide if it’s helpful for your or the opposite. When I “fell off the wagon” on Day 151, I let that mess with my head and struggled to “get back on”. My thoughts were a blur, what defines a binge? Is it the amount or the way that I ate the food? What’s Bad enough to reset the counter? I got caught in a negative, all-or-nothing diet-esque mentality again, so no more Nomo for me.

Also, it’s really quite knackering to have your aim to be simply “don’t binge”. My therapist suggested instead I focus on adding good stuff in to my life. It’s those pesky twinkle lights, y’all.

Other things

Embrace – “is a social impact documentary that explores the issue of body image”. We watched this at Green Mountain and I thought it was great – funny, thought-provoking. It is on Netflix in the US and the website has details on where you can watch it in other countries.

Feeding Freedom – “is a group coaching programme that will help you loosen the hold that secret eating has on you by bringing it into the light” – run by my friend Shona Macpherson.

Green Mountain’s blog has some fantastic posts in the archives that cover different aspects of eating, moving and living with lots of practical advice.

UPDATE 9 August. I can’t believe I forgot to include the “feisty anti-diet feminist” @healingcrayons on Instagram. Her collages always hit home for me.

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8 thoughts on “Resources for emotional eating, binge eating, non-diet approaches and all that jazz

  1. I’m so glad you checked out Insatiable Shauna! I think you’ll get a different angle than intuitive eating (even though we both have the same end goal…to be in touch with your own intuition/nature!). And I love Dr. Neff and Roxanne Gay!

    I’d recommend these episodes based on what you shared here, mainly a different lens to look at binge eating disorder. In my research, it’s based on unresolved traumas (both Big Ts and little ts) and so you might find these episodes helpful:

    https://alishapiro.com/inner-food-rebel-self-sabotage-or-self-protection/

    https://alishapiro.com/oprahs-60-minutes-discovery-applied-to-body-image-and-eating-season-3-episode-3/

    https://alishapiro.com/freedom-from-the-downward-eating-spiral/

  2. I was so excited to see these recommendations as I’ve been delving into this area for about a year and the stuff I’ve found so far has genuinely blown my mind and made a huge difference to my wellbeing. I love the body kindness podcast and hadn’t realised there was a book. Shauna I am sure you know about all of the below already…

    Podcasts
    – The Food Psych podcast with Christy Harrisson (one of the episodes I especially loved had Lucy Aphramor, who co-wrote body respect with Linda Bacon, as a guest.
    – Dietitians Unplugged – very chatty and likeable hosts!
    Book – Losing It – false hopes and fat profits in the diet industry by Laura Fraser – riveting and really educated me about the social history of dieting and all that is rotten about the industry.
    Twitter/blogs
    -Michelle Allison (the fat nutritionist)- really thought provoking,radical and from the heart.
    -@yrfatfriend – just amazing!

    Ps on a somewhat related matter I would really like to read/hear more about body acceptance/overcoming internalised fat phobia as this is an area I really need to do more work on. I would love any suggestions for people to look up who have good advice or interesting thoughts on this subject.

    1. Emma! Thank you so much for your comment! I have been meaning to check out Dietitians Unplugged as they were both guests on Rebecca’s podcast. “Losing It” sounds like a great read.

      I LOVE Michelle Allison and yrfatfriend.

      The whole body acceptance/overcoming internalised fat phobia is something I reeeeeally need to do more work on too. I will post anything I can find here!

      1. That would be fab 🙂 Yes that book was a great read though I was surprised how long ago it was published (1997!) I’m not sure much has changed in the mainstream since, though maybe the tide is gently turning. I just googled the author – she seems very cool!

  3. I’d recommend Geneen Roth. I like her writing style and character a lot. I think it’s Breaking free from Emotional Eating? I tend to shelve her book backwards as I am a bit embarrassed to have people see it. (Although I noticed other people do this too and it makes me want to check to see what their backwards books are. Am admittedly nosy.)

    hope all going swimmingly on your journey (bleurgh, terrible word, but you know what I mean) xxx

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